You may have heard stories of women who orgasm within a minute. You may have heard of people who orgasm multiple times in a single session. Lots of people with clits are confused when they hear this, and that’s sadly because a lot of women never orgasm or only orgasm sparingly.
According to studies, only around 65% heterosexual and cisgender women, 66% bisexual women, and 86% of lesbian women orgasm consistently with their sexual partners. Some statistics suggest that about 10% to 15% of all women never orgasm in their whole lives. Even most traditional sex toys — vibrators and dildos — fail to induce orgasms regularly.
Some statistics suggest that about 10% to 15% of all women never orgasm in their whole lives.
The reasons for these statistics may be multifold, but one of the primary reasons is that most sex toys have failed to tap into a clit’s true potential. Traditional vibrators and dildos only stimulate the tip of the clitoris containing the nerve endings. That feels pretty good and gives you a bit of a tingle, but it doesn’t come close to offering the kind of orgasms the female body is really capable of.
That’s where clit suction sex toys come in. Clit suckers use air pressure to generate deep and resonant sonic pulses that indirectly stimulate your entire clitoral structure — not just the tip. Their nozzle channels sonic vibrations that reverberate through your entire clitoris, inducing instant orgasms.
Most users of clit suction sex toys state that they’ve opened up new forms of bodily pleasure they didn’t even know they were capable of! Achieving a true orgasm is a religious experience, and you should take your time with it. So, let’s look at how you can achieve the strongest orgasms with them!
Choose a Safe and Comfortable Clit Sucker
Your journey towards the perfect orgasm starts during your initial search for a good clit sucker. All models aren’t built alike, and you should take some time to find just the right one.
These are a couple of factors you can consider when looking for the safest and most effective ones:
- Body-Safe Material: Find a sex toy with a body-safe, non-BPA, and non-phthalate silicone material. Silicone is the best material for sex toys because it’s non-porous and doesn’t allow bacterial and fungal growth, so there’s no risk of yeast infections.
- Multiple Pressure Modes: The ideal clit stimulator should have multiple pressure modes, allowing you to move through different pressures to find the ideal settings for your body.
- Ribbed Texture: Look for a squishy and ribbed sex toy because the textured shell will provide additional external stimulation.
- Suction & Vibration: Get one with dual settings for suction and vibration, giving you the dual benefits and sensations of a clit sucker and a traditional vibrator!
- Attractive Design: Sex toys shouldn’t be shameful things that you hide away in discreet drawers under lock and key. Find a cute and aesthetically attractive sex toy that you can proudly use as an ornamental centerpiece!
- Cost: A premium-priced sex toy will be more likely made with body-safe materials.
Set the Mood and Get Into the Right Frame of Mind
Once you have the perfect clit sucker, it’s time to enjoy some solo time with your toy. Instead of flicking it out and going at it, take the time to set the mood. Most people fail to orgasm due to pent-up stress and tensions. Orgasming can be a great stress relief, but it’s a two-way street — you need to be relaxed to find the perfect orgasm.
Most people fail to orgasm due to pent-up stress and tensions.
Don’t think of it as simple masturbation — think of it as a date or party for one. Get cozy in your surroundings, just like you would with a partner you trust. Play a romantic or sexy playlist, whatever works for you. Light some candles, if that’s your thing. Try aromatherapy because certain scents can be aphrodisiac. You can also run a hot bath with bubbles. Basically, treat yourself to the finest, most romantic, and sexiest date you can think of!
Start Slow and Work Your Way Up Towards an Orgasm
During your first clit sucker experience, you should start slow. Everyone has a different tolerance to the suction and vibration experience. Most people have never had such an experience in their lives, so you need to familiarize your body with the sensation.
Start with a gentle pressure mode, gauge how your body likes that. Settle back and relax, work it around your clitoris from different angles. Find an angle that works for you, and gently increase the pressure. As you get more comfortable, start increasing the pressure to feel those deep vibrations reverberating through your clitoris, almost feeling like oral sex.
Experiment With the Clit Sucker’s Modes and Features
If you have an advanced clit sucker like Biird’s Namii, you may have several modes and features to play with. Dual-function clit suckers have suction and traditional vibration features. Flip back and forth between those functions to see how your body responds to each sensation.
You can start with gentle suction, holding the device just over your clitoris. You can then move into a vibration, stroking your clitoris with the clit vibrator’s body, feeling its ribbed and textured skin against it. Change the vibration settings from a murmur to a deep rumble, flip back to suction mode, and basically play around with the features till you find the perfect setting for yourself. Read a list of the best tips to climax fast here.
Listen to your body and do what feels great.
Clit suction vibrators are powerful enough to make you orgasm instantly. If that’s what you want, go for it! If you want to extend your play session, play around with the settings to pull yourself back as you reach the precipice. Listen to your body and do what feels great.
Rinse and Repeat As Much As You Want!
Once you’ve finished, you can take a little break and go for round two if you want. Don’t forget to use lubricant with your clit sucker if you think that’s necessary. If not, wash your toy off with a water-based toy cleaner or soapy water, rinsing it until all the soapy solution is gone. Dry it off with a soft towel and place it in its pride of place, be it in your drawer or on your coffee table! And revisit that orgasmic sensation whenever you want!
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